I Bought My Own Ring (Standard Edition)
R250,00
I Bought My Own Ring is a testament to the strength that comes from taking ownership of our stories; it’s a lifeline for those ready to reclaim their story and rebuild their lives from the inside out.
This standard edition features the manuscript elegantly set against a backdrop of African-inspired black and white prints on the front cover. It’s a design that exudes sophistication and cultural richness.
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This standard edition features the manuscript elegantly set against a backdrop of African-inspired black and white prints on the front cover. It’s a design that exudes sophistication and cultural richness.
I Bought My Own Ring: A Manual on What Not to Do, Then What to Do Once You've Done It is a raw, courageous journey of resilience, growth, and self-discovery. Part memoir, part guide, this book dives into the messy, beautiful reality of life’s missteps and the hard-won lessons they offer. With wit, wisdom, and vulnerability, Thabi M recounts a path filled with stumbles— through the depths of trauma, abuse, addiction, and self-destruction into the light of healing, purpose, and faith.
But this isn’t just a story of what went wrong—it’s a blueprint for rising after the fall.
It serves as a roadmap for anyone who feels trapped, powerless, or lost.
Be Empowered to:
- Own Your Story, Heal Your Life – Discover how embracing your past can transform pain into strength, allowing you to reclaim your power and build a future that honours your true self.
- Find Strength in Vulnerability – Learn that true resilience comes not from hiding your scars but from sharing them; your journey can inspire others and deepen your healing.
- Create a Life Aligned with Your Purpose – Unlock the connection between mental, spiritual, physical, and emotional wellness to design a life that reflects who you are and who you’re meant to become.



Millicent Ndiweni –
A story of grace, but also of intentionality on her part. We are all agents of our choices, and she has made a remarkable 180-degree turn—from a ‘good girl gone bad’ to someone now making wise decisions. The Holy Spirit never stopped knocking on her door, and most importantly for me, Jesus never stopped protecting her through it all. Now, she walks in faith, not presumption.
Sibiziwe Jiyana –
I Bought My Own Ring is an inspiring true story of a young woman who endured drugs, rape, and life as an escort, yet found the courage to turn her life around. Though her journey reads like fiction, every page is real and deeply moving. What makes her story powerful is how prayer became her anchor, guiding her out of darkness and giving her strength to rebuild her life. This book is not only gripping but also a testimony of faith and resilience. A must-read for young people and parents, reminding us that no situation is beyond God’s saving grace.